OUR GROWTH INTRUDER IS OUR BELIEF SYSTEM

Believe it or not, the belief systems which we have grown with are good as well as bad. These systems have been attracted to our life since childhood following along into adulthood and different stages of life.

Our belief system arises from the experiences, successes, failures, personal connections, family, friends, peers, and siblings we encounter; essentially society as a whole has been integrated into our belief systems. 

At times we do not even know if the beliefs we hold and live by, are our own or based on someone else's belief systems and what they project onto us, including those of our parents, siblings, and friends as mentioned before. If the beliefs are positive, then it's great but if they are negative, they stop us from growing. 

Think - if you have gone for an interview & you were unable to secure a job, perhaps even failed multiple times, what kind of a belief system would you have developed by now? Or imagine you had a bad relationship with your relatives or your friends in the past and got hurt multiple times, you will always feel that people around you are there to hurt you. Right!!

Beliefs that are limiting, prevent growth, and desire to achieve the levels that we have been dreaming of in both professional and personal life. With limiting beliefs, there is a boundary that gets installed in our subconscious mind, directing the limit on our capabilities. Beyond this boundary, our mind stops us from reacting or responding.

But it is not impossible to change the stubborn belief system of years. Luckily, 3 simple steps can open our mindset & help us acquire a broader perspective on life.

Jack Canfield, an American author came up with these 3 steps & converted them into a simple yet beautiful formula: 

E+ R =O (Event+ Response=Outcome)

E stands for an Event or a situation that can never be in our control, but the way we Respond (R) to the situation and how we respond to it determines what the Outcome (O) will be.

E.g. Who knew we would be facing the pandemic to this extent, right?!! But the way we respond or react to it is totally within our control. Accordingly, we will encounter the outcome or result.

Life is a roller coaster ride. Before jumping into any event or situation, think about whose belief systems are we carrying with us that are forcing us to react in a particular way; the outcome is borne solely by you and only you have to face it.

Situations or events are there to come, its only the way we respond to them that matters.

Have a beautiful Life!

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